Sexy bondage and SM lesson for beginners
Note : We wrote separate instructions for ladies and gents yet that doesn't mean the instructions are gender-restricted at all off course.
Ladies :
Blindfold your partner, tie him up and tease him.
Then sit down on top of him, untie his blindfold and masturbate.
You sure gonna have his undivided attention.
Or...
Undress him and tie his wrists together.
He has to make love to you, but you are only allowed to follow his intructions.
He's allowed to ask you to stand up, sit down or ... use his imagination.
A bit more adventurous is soft spanking.
Wait until you're naked, softly get on his lap and whisper:"I've been a bad girl".
Gentlemen :
Spanking is all about vibrations and sensations, NOT physical force!
Use little tricks such as 'sudden surprise' and 'prolonged waiting' to tease.
Build it up slowly, this way you both get used to it better.
Those who'd like to go one step further might try soft nippleclamps,
most people can bare those without any problem.
Do not place them on the nipple but the area around it.
Don't forget :
Do not overestimate yourself :
1000 whiplashes may seem arousing in your dreams,
but that surely is not the same as 10 for real.
Never make promisses you can't keep.
Last but not least :
Do this only with a person you trust completely and agree on a mercy-word.
If it gets too intense, you shout, for example, "mercy",
then you can still have an orgasm while you shout: "untie me, you barbarian!".
Have fun, you kinky brats!
